July 5, 2008

nerd language

Filed under: teens

Do you it’s possible to add another language in our international language?

well, i think yes. It is. And it can be added on to your top lists.

it’s about nerd language. IF you interrupt a conversation you would question yourself, what? Am I hearing these guys right?

well, yes. Sometimes we can be ahead of their topic because they would include

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center is a word that appears in your mind. So I conclude that to be compared with to an average person a nerd can relate anything from top to bottom. except the one whose listening has nothing to say.

June 30, 2008

How to mend a brokenheart

Filed under: teens

IT's Hard and undefined

It’s hard to mend a simple hearche that lasts a lifetime. It’s easy to forget but hard to repent. I am sure that love will never comeback. It just happends once in a lifetime to scourge one’s pain. It’s sometimes hard to define what really love is. It’s hard to recognize what is fake from what is real. If your heart is broken try to feel great with what life you have now. You have to be positive and cope up with the good things that life has for you. Why would you stick to one person while you have many? It’s alright to look a lot better than before. But I tell you, that have to decide quickly because life is short. And life has something to bid, soon.

June 26, 2008

Humor

Filed under: teens

Isn’t it quite possible to challenge what kind of being we are… i was just wondering why others tend to supress us with their imaginary feelings. It was a bit humiliating in my side that people tend to make funny decisions. Wherein, they laugh when they make mistakes that aren’t theirs but in fact they have this tendecy to smile and see what’s funny. but isn’t their. (are you getting this?) I mean they’re funny to look at when they make someone happy.

They are conscious with their doings and yet, nothing happened. i was overwhelmed by the idea that they don’t even care how much they weighed too much effort to make people insecure but the matter is their. (i’m not hitting someone).

Fashion should be about style. Not idiocracy… It’s too much to bare.

June 25, 2008

My Advice for The Upcoming Teeners

Filed under: Uncategorized

Tips & Warnings

  • All teenagers need encouragement to postpone sexual involvement and information on pregnancy prevention if they become sexually active.
  • Too often, adolescent pregnancy is viewed as a problem having to do exclusively with teenage girls. Overlooked are the teenage boys and men who share equally in this responsibility. Boys need pregnancy prevention information and services as well.
  • Check in often. Your kids will not come to you to open this discussion; you have to go to them.

Note: It’s not disgusting to be pregnant. It’s your fault you did it, it’s your choice. And I’m advising teeners to take care of what they have. Never take your life for granted.

  Step1

Use your influence. Research is on your side. Findings show that young people, although embarrassed when talking with parents about sex, do listen. Children of all ages are influenced by what they see and hear in the media. To counteract these outside opinions and celebrity role models, parents need to have many, many discussions. This is not a one-time conversation.
Step2
Have a point of view and express it. Practice clarifying your point of view and values by having discussions with your spouse and friends too. Not only will you become more comfortable with the topic, you will also be better prepared to address a wide range of the issues involved. It is not enough to simply say, “Don’t have sex.” You have to help the young person think about the reasons why teen pregnancy is not a good idea.
Step3
Look for opportunities to open the conversation, but don’t make it personal. Kids may not choose to talk openly with parents about personal sexuality, so keep the discussions focused on the teen celebrity who is pregnant. For example, ask, “Did you see that so and so is pregnant? What do you think about that?” Tell them what you think about the fact that the teenage celebrity is pregnant.
Step4
Discuss the ramifications of pregnancy fully. Here are areas to talk about: The short-term and long term consequences of having a baby, and the responsibilities associated with being pregnant and having a baby. What it costs to have a baby, and the specific ways that a teenager’s life changes when they become a parent.
Step5
Involve the young person in the discussion by asking open-ended questions: "Why do you think teenagers have sex?" "What are some reasons why teens don’t use contraception?" If they don’t answer, then you answer the question for them by saying: “I think teens have sex because…..”
Step6
Point out how society sends mixed messages about sex. Talk of sex fills the airwaves and sex is used to sell everything from cars to perfume. Ask: "How does the media and the entertainment industry influence teenagers’ decisions about sex?" "Do you wish sex were treated differently in popular television shows, in music and movies?" "If so, how?"
Step7
Discuss love versus sex. Do they go together? Are they the same thing? To stimulate your own thinking about love, you might read "The Art of Loving" by Erich Fromm.
Step8
Reassure the young person that they can come to you. Answer all questions openly and honestly. If you don’t know the answer, tell them that you will find out. Tell the young person that you want them to get the information they need from you. Tell them often that you trust them to make good decisions.
Step9
Be encouraged! Your child will not welcome the conversation, but they are listening.